Lumi is an app for iPhone and Android that helps people stay No Contact, get through the urge to text an ex, and take small steps back to themselves. It is made by a small independent team. Our guides are written to be honest, practical and kind, and they never replace professional help.
Why we built Lumi
Breakups are one of the most common hard things that happen to people, and one of the least supported. The moments that matter most, like 2 a.m. with a half-written text, happen when no one is around. We built Lumi for those moments: a counter that grows a flower, an SOS that buys you sixty seconds, a place to write what you cannot send.
How we write our guides
- Honest first. We do not promise that No Contact will bring anyone back, and we do not make medical claims.
- Evidence where it exists. When we mention research, we link to it. When the evidence is thin, we say so.
- Fair comparisons. When we compare apps, we use each app's own store listing, show the date we checked, and say clearly that we make Lumi.
- Kept up to date. Every guide shows when it was last updated, and we revise them as we learn.
- Safety on every page. Every guide links to crisis resources.
What Lumi is not
Lumi is a self-help tool. It is not therapy, medical advice or an emergency service. The Coach is a trained language model, not a person and not a therapist, and it can make mistakes. If you are struggling to cope, please talk to a professional.
Contact
Questions, corrections or feedback on a guide? Visit support. We read every message.
